What Should I Expect in My First Therapy Session?
**The problem:** Not knowing what happens makes the whole thing feel bigger and more daunting than it needs to be. **The answer:** Here's what usually happens, honestly: **The first session is mostly intake.** Your therapist will ask about your background, what's brought you in, and what you're hoping to get from the process. You won't be asked to cry or reveal anything you're not ready for. **What to expect:** - 50–60 minutes, usually - You'll be asked open questions — you control how much you share - It might feel slightly awkward, like a first date with a professional - You probably won't feel dramatically different afterwards - Your therapist will likely explain how they work and what the next sessions might look like **What it's not:** - Not being told what to do - Not being judged for your past - Not a sign you've failed Go in with one honest answer to: *"What's been bothering me most lately?"* That's enough to start.